Research has shown that spirituality is increasingly popular with more people turning away from organized religions. Gay spirituality is also following this trend. The internet has a large and ever growing number of groups and websites dedicated to gay spirituality.

Nobody knows exactly why the growth in spirituality is happening but there are some theories. Some think that individuals are seeking a deeper connection with the world beyond what is material because they find the material world unsatisfying. They feel compelled to search for answers to the mysteries in the world which science has not been able to understand yet. Also many people are turning away from religions because of the problems in churches and the negative aspects of many faiths which preach fear.

For the gay community there are also problems with religion due to the condemnation of the homosexual lifestyle. The Christian denunciation of homosexuality has caused many problems for gay people. The legal and moral framework of many western societies was based on the Christian understanding of the world. This has led to a history of persecution at worst and at least difficulties in acceptance of the lifestyle. The result of this for gay individuals has been difficulty accepting their own nature. Some have suggested a similarity between coming out and spiritual searching as both require introspection and acceptance of the self.

Traditionally gay people have often undertaken caring roles in society either in the caring professions or as ministers, priests and healers. One reason for this may be that most homosexuals choose not to have children. This allows more time and energy for helping others. Following a spiritual path also takes time and energy and so many gay people find they have the opportunity for this practice.

The trauma of AIDS and its effect on gay men may also play a role in the growth of gay spirituality. Many young men have seen their loved ones; friends and peers die a terrible death at a young age. Death and the fear of it has always been a motivating factor in religious and spiritual belief.

Whatever the reasons for it there is no doubt that gay spirituality is increasing. There are several main aspects of the practices. Firstly many are seeking a higher consciousness through the use of sex and intimacy. Gay tantra is very popular and involves using breathing and physical intimacy to reach higher states of pleasure. It focuses on concentrating on the present which is an important part of spiritual work. The opposite side of the coin sees a growth in workshops encouraging gay people to discover ways of sharing intimacy other than sex. You can also find gay shamans, energy workers, pagans, healers, herbalists. Workshops on meditation, energy work, nature and drumming are also growing in popularity.

If you would like to learn more about gay spirituality there is a wealth of information on the internet. Many groups have formed to encourage spiritual practice in the gay community and they hold meetings, workshops and retreats. You will also find details of books written by gay spiritualists with philosophies and practices relating directly to gay people. Many websites have chat facilities and other features for online communities so that you can share thoughts with others.

Gay spirituality is a growing phenomenon and you can be part of it easily by using online resources. Whatever aspects of spirituality interest you there are many opportunities to join with other to explore them.

Howie Holben facilitates Spirit Journeys, a gay vacations group that helps with spiritual vacations. Howie has travelled the world learning from indigenous peoples. Learn more about Howie, his work and a gay tours at Spirit Journeys website.